Are you sleeping with the fishes?
“There is plenty more fish in the sea” they say.
This is true.
However,
You don’t want to sleep with them! (The Godfather reference)
Here are some questions you could ask yourself when you vet for a partner:
- Are we in alignment with a higher mission/power?
- Do our values sync well together?
- Do they bring stability to the household?
- Am I attracted to them?
- Can I imagine myself being with them for the rest of my life?
- Can I see them as the father/mother of my kids?
- And so on, and so forth
In today’s society, many care for the 4th question only.
Some don’t even care for any of the above.
By their standards, there are millions of fish in the sea.
But when you look for someone to grow, build, share and conquer the world with,
you won’t even come across a handful of compatible mates in your entire lifetime.
So
if you do end up finding someone who is worth your time,
do not take them for granted.
They actually are
a one in a million type of fish.
Choose wisely.